How To Become A Findom

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If you want to become a findom, but don’t know where to start, then read this blog post! We’ll explain what a findom is, average earnings, and how to make money.

Becoming A Findom – FAQs

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What is a findom?

Findom is short for financial domination. It is a kink where a submissive gives gifts and money to a financial dominant (findom).

What is a finsub?

A finsub – otherwise known as a cash slave, pay pig or human ATM is a financial submissive. They enjoy allowing a financial dominant to use their money and control their finances. The arousal factor comes from the thought of the dom invading their personal space. For many, a bank account is one of the most personal and private spaces there is.

What types of people become finsubs?

A typical submissive would be a young man under the age of 35. But some older men enjoy being financially dominated too.

What types of people become findoms?

The majority of doms are young women under 25. However, there is a growing number of straight men on Twitter who are also becoming findoms. These ‘straight alphas’ typically receive payment from gay men.

Do findoms have to meet their finsubs?

Most findoms never physically meet their submissive. The entire relationship only exists online. The reason for this is because it’s this surrendering of power that is arousing for the finsub, rather than physical touch.

What does a findom actually do?

A findom doesn’t just get paid for being pretty or handsome. Findom’s typically have to do whatever is necessary to get paid. This could mean degrading and humiliating your finsub via text. Or it could mean wallet rape during a face to face meeting. It could even mean doing a one-on-one webcam show, if the price is right.

How much can I earn as a findom?

Fairly established findoms can expect to earn anywhere between £1,000 and £10,000 per month. This excludes gifts. However, some findom’s can earn significantly more. In 2014, Maitresse Madeline hit the headlines when an anonymous man paid her £33,500 for an hour-long webcam session.

How do I find a finsub?

To find a finsub, you should create a Twitter account and use the relevant hashtags to reach your target audience. Some of the most common hashtags are #findom #cashmaster and #paypig. There are also specialist websites like where women can advertise their services.

What else do I need to use?

There are several video hosting platforms that findoms use including iWantClips, and Onlyfans. Experienced findom’s also use a software package called TeamViewer. This allows the findom to remotely view the computer of a finsub. The finsub can give their banking passwords to the findom and allow them to make withdrawals, whilst watching on helplessly.

Can I use Paypal to receive adult payments?

PayPal strictly forbids the exchange of money for adult transactions. PayPal can close your account without any notice with you having thousands of dollars in it if you breach this rule. Therefore, we recommend starting an Onlyfans instead. Onlyfans has a secure payment facility.

Types of Findom Payments

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Findoms typically earn money in three main ways:


Most findoms earn money through a series of regular payments called Tribute. The dominant and submissive will agree on a sum in advance. Then payments will be made on a weekly or monthly basis.

Consensual blackmail

Consensual blackmail occurs when the finsub fantasises about being blackmailed by their findom. Here, the submissive enjoys the thrill of their ‘secrets’ being exposed to colleagues, or loved ones. With consensual blackmail, the payments are negotiated in advance. However, a good findom would never actually follow through.

Total power exchange (TPE)

In a total power exchange (TPE), the financial dominant decides what they want and tells the dominant the amount of money that is required. This control can range from day to day expenses such as food to high-end items like luxury handbags. TPE is a turn-on for a lot of people because of the level of trust involved. Some men even hand over online banking passwords to their dom.

How To Become A Findom – Step By Step Guide

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Step 1 – Do your research

Go on Twitter, and search hashtags like ‘#findom’ and ‘#paypig’ to see exactly the type of content that findoms are sharing online. Watch videos from current findoms to make sure you know exactly what will be required.

Step 2 – Start building an audience

Open an account on Twitter and create a profile on You can use Twitter, to get lots of subscribers on Onlyfans. to try to  You may also choose to create accounts on specialist websites like iWantClips. Share preview content on each platform, and encourage subs to pay you if they want to see more. Invest in Ann Summers lingerie, sexy costumes and anything else that you need to curate your online persona.

Step 3 – Find a loyal finsub

To find a loyal finsub you actively have to put in work. There are lots of findoms on the internet, so think about why a finsub should give their money to you. Give them attention, reply to their messages, and try to create a meaningful relationship. Once you have one loyal finsub, it will give you the confidence. This added confidence will help you find even more!

Step 4 – Recognise time-wasters early

Learn to determine between honest slaves and time wasters. Do not entertain the time-wasters at. The ones who really want to be your financial submissive will not play games. They will respect your time.

Step 5 – Create a contract

Financial dominants and submissives should iron out a contract detailing the boundaries of their exchanges. Common provisions include secrecy (some subs could be married), and the payment method. It’s important to create the contract early on because it prevents issues further down the line.

Step 5 – Don’t ask, tell

Prepare a list of what you spend, and where, and demand that your finsub funds your lifestyle. This is what you are being paid for. Don’t allow your finsub to question what you spend or why. They don’t have the right to ask those questions.

Step 6 – Give them what they want

Some finsubs want a findom because they have more money than they know what to do with. Others want a findom because they want extreme verbal abuse. Consider what your finsubs motivations are, and ensure that you give them what they want. A finsub won’t be loyal to you if you’re not delivering the goods. 

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