It is surprising how many men want a wank buddy. A wank, or the act of male masturbation, is something that most guys do at least once a day. It can be quite lonely wanking by yourself and perhaps you just want some company. A wank buddy can transform your life for the better.
Where Do I Find A Wank Buddy?
One of the easiest ways to get a wank buddy is to just put some porn on when your friends are around. Make sure everyone has had enough alcohol, turn on some porn and casually suggest it. Most guys will fancy a wank if they have had a beer and porn is on the tv.
It can be hard to approach the topic of wanking together with somebody you have just met in person, but you can easily find a wank buddy online. You will have to be more creative than normal but it is definitely possible.
Gay Dating Apps
Obviously the most logical place to start your search for a wank buddy is on gay dating apps. Even if you’re not gay, this is where gay guys hang out. The most popular one is Grindr but there are many more such as Scruff, Tinder, Adam4Adam and Hornet, Hinge and OKCupid to name just a few. Read our blog post on the best gay dating apps.
Once you have signed up for an account, set up a profile and make your bio clear that you’re looking for a wank buddy. Many gay guys find it hot to wank with a straight guy, so this shouldn’t be a problem.
Social Media
You can get chatting to guys on social media platforms such as Instagram, Twitter and TikTok, just as you would normally. DM them and slowly build up the friendship. Don’t expect to just jump straight into asking them to be your wank buddy as this will take time. It might even take a few coffee or gym meets to get to know each other a bit better.
Is It Gay To Have A Wank Buddy?
Having a wank buddy doesn’t necessarily mean you’re gay. You might have no attraction to guys and just enjoy the company of another man. Many heterosexual guys wank together.
If you get turned on by seeing another mans erect penis then this is a sign that you do have gay feelings, and you should be proud and embrace them. You might also be Bisexual. Read our blog post on signs of bisexuality in males.
I Have A Fetish Of Wanting To Watch Other Men Wank
For some guys watching another man wank really turns them on. They are happy to just sit in silence and observe. This can be a form of escapism, like watching porn but in real life.
I Fancy Girls But I Want A Wank Buddy
Fancying girls and wanting to wank with a guy is totally fine and more common than you think. Long gone are the days where people need to box themselves off and not be into same-sex nakedness. The Romans used to get naked together all the time and there will have been wank action for sure.
Wanking Alone Is Sad
Many single men that wank alone actually find this quite upsetting and isolating. They feel that the rest of society is out there sleeping with people which can be mentally damaging. For this reason, it can be a very lonely act which is sometimes done in a robotic routine like way. Since the pandemic, being lonely has been common and the idea of wanking with a friend can be comforting.
If you are finding yourself lonely and isolated when masturbating then a wank buddy could be perfect for you.
Wanking Is Good For Your Mental Health
The act of having a wank is really great for your mental health. It’s healthy to get aroused, masturbate and then have a release. This can often allow you to have a clearer mind and a better sleeping pattern. A wank buddy can make masturbation more fun as you chat and go through the sexual build up together. Get some nice lube, lay back and wank away.
