How To Get His Attention: 5 Simple Tricks To Seduce A Man

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Getting a man that you like to notice you is often easier said than done. This is what we’ll teach you how to do in this blog post. These 5 simple tricks will help you get any guy’s attention.

Apply a signature scent to make him remember you

focus on your look

Our choice of a romantic partner is somewhat guided by our sense of smell. By applying a signature scent, whenever your target smells your scent on you, or anywhere else, he will be reminded of you. If you’re not sure which scent to go for, Alan Hirsch, M.D., of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago let Glamour in on a few research findings. He found that men were particularly attracted to fragrances with base notes of lily of the valley or fresh.

Take a sexy picture

sexy pic

The idea of taking a sexy photo can be a little daunting, especially if you haven’t done it before. Sexy can mean whatever you want to be. Your photo can be tasteful and still be seductive. To get started, you need a phone camera, and a way of sharing the photo with the man you want to attract.

There are three types of photo that you could take:

The post workout glow

workout glow

You know the glow that gym goers have after they have finished working out? Well, this is a good look that you can recreate to get his attention. If you don’t have any gym gear then that’s okay. Now is the right time to start investing! Skin hugging yoga pants and a well-fitted sports bra are heavenly combination, so your dream man will definitely be turned on.

The ‘I just woke up’ smile

just woke up

For this sexy pic all you need is messy hair, clean sheets, and lots of light in your bedroom. This light could be natural (daytime from windows), or artificial. Whether or not you were actually in bed, just strip down, pull up the sheets, and smile like you’ve won the lottery. He’ll definitely have a good morning!

A lingerie selfie

lingerie selfie

There are so many great ways to take a lingerie selfie that will get his attention! Angles are incredibly important. You can take a lingerie selfie from the side, from above or from below. You could even take a photo from behind you as you look in a mirror. The lingerie selfie you take should be sent directly to the guy you’re trying to seduce on Snapchat, Twitter, or Instagram. If he knows that this sexy pic is for him only, and nobody else, it will make him crazy for you. For ultra-sexy lingerie, Lovehoney should be your go to.

Make eye contact and hold his gaze for 5 seconds

eye contact

Anyone would find it incredibly difficult to maintain eye contact for 5 seconds solidly. It’s highly unusual. However it’s by far and away the best way of dropping the hint that you find a man attractive. This should definitely get his attention. Mentally prepare for that uncomfortable feeling in advance. Look at him, look away, then hold his gaze for five seconds. You can repeat this for as long as the conversation lasts for. To intensify things, you may wish to touch your hair or slightly lean in towards him as he speaks.

Wear an outfit that makes you feel like a million dollars

feel like a million dollars

Wearing an outfit that makes you feel fabulous is an easy way to get his attention. When you wear clothes that are new, or accentuate your assets, not only do you look great, but you feel great too. This inner confidence shines through and makes you simply irresistible. Self-confidence says, “I accept myself on every level” and invites everyone around you, including the guy you like, to do the same.

Break through the touch barrier


Touch is a very important thing in human communication and in romance. Whenever you touch someone, levels of oxytocin (the hormone which makes you happy) increase. To get his attention by breaking through the touch barrier you should initially allow your arm to brush against his. This fairly innocuous form of touch will subtly register in his mind. Another way to get his attention is to gently tap his foot, or stroke his leg under a table.


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